After living in London for some time now, social behaviours that at first seemed quite strange have become my daily norm (I myself and the proud owner of 5 pairs of skinny pants). So much so, that on visits back to the US some of my observations suggest I may be undergoing some social conditioning in London. When this happens I think "whoa", pause to take notice, and reflect on the intricacies of what is the "social Norm".
Let's call this reverse culture shock. Here are some examples I kept track of on this most recent trip to Chicago (all of which, when considering their opposite point out some of the initial shocks undergone when I moved to the UK)
• People drive - I literally stopped in the street after jumping the El and lugging my bag 6 blocks to remember what that was like, and everyone I knew had a car.
• Belligerently standing on the left side of the escalator - a stunt known to result in homicidal thoughts to most Brits, and interestingly ex-pats as well after some time.
• The size of the robins - holy cow they are huge!
• Hispanics ... Awww yeah ... Salsa music howling from open car windows
• On a related note ... Guys check you out ... and talk to you ... and honk ... and whistle ...
• No skinny pants - I was looking.
• Tube tops - searches in London were fruitless. Must have been 20 kinds in the PayHalf on Milwaukee. Yessss.
• Hipsters. The real ones. Everywhere, and invented in Logan Square.
• Bottomless coffee. Bot-Tom-Less. Now if we could only get England to adopt the bottomless Monmouth Latte.
• What do you call that place where you go to the bathroom? It's not the loo, as I have called it twice much to the confusion of others
• Pretty people. Not quite as easy to find in England.
• Hearing this: "I'm sorry ma'am, the kitchen closes at 9". Huh? I've been ridiculed for setting bookings earlier than that.
Social studies have always been a keen interest of mine, and this life experience not only has provided me with a window to observe many European cultures, but also a valuable chance to reflect back on where I come from and the things we do that make us unique as well. Fun!
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